Why Break Up?
“Don’t call me anymore,” the door slams in your face and the last thing you see is your ex turning away from the door, tears streaming down her face. I know you feel bad – and you’re not even sure what went wrong, but now is not the time to rush back in. I know you’re thinking why break up – let’s make up instead.
Give Her Time
When emotions are running hot and heavy – this is not the time to try and talk things out – take a step back – give her some time and then approach things from a different angle.
No Mind Games
Winning back your ex is not about playing silly mind games, contrary to popular belief. It does involve being smart and developing a plan to woo her back, however, you must be ready to maneuver on your feet.
What You Can Do After She’s Back
After she’s back, keep these important things in mind:
- Invest time in your relationship – spend time with her
- Pay attention to her conversations
- She’s not your mother – don’t treat her like she is
- Communicate your feelings with her
- Pay attention to the way she looks and compliment her
- Be emotionally available
- No wham, bam, thank you ma’ams – sex involves two people not just you
Stereotypically women are social creatures; they enjoy sharing their thoughts and feelings through communication, through talking. They’re not asking for advice when they communicate this way, they just want someone to listen and to understand their feelings.
Even though this may be foreign to you – she really just wants someone to be there for her and the main reason women break up with men is that they don’t feel that you are.
I know how hard understanding a woman can be, but it’s really not that hard. Women are different, but not that different, why break up is as much on her mind as it is on yours — if you give it time.
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